Santa, The Tooth Fairy and Psychology
When families come to a psychologist seeking services, they
are worried about their children, they feel stressed, and they are often
concerned about the investment of time and finances required to achieve their
goals. They are experiencing ambivalent and contradictory feelings. They want help restoring peace in their families, yet wish they could do it without professional intervention. They want to hear the results of an assessment yet are afraid it may be bad news. Parents may have different points of view about the problem and are unsure about whether the psychologist will ‘agree’ with them or their spouse.
For some people, these feelings are amplified by their concerns about stigma or their misunderstanding of the mental health field. They find it easier to dismiss mental health as voodoo, make-believe or sentimental nonsense than it is to tolerate the possibility that thoughts and emotions can have a significant impact on our functioning. Parents have very sincerely told me that they “don’t believe in psychology.” I suppose that makes me something like the Tooth Fairy. Sometimes I wonder if they ever told their college professors, “I don’t believe in history” or their doctors “I don’t believe in dermatology.” It’s odd for someone who studied the science for years that it can be dismissed as fantasy.
However, ongoing work with these families has shown me that their initial hesitance to acknowledge that psychology is ‘real’ is due to our natural inclination to distance ourselves from the unknown. Many people maintain the cartoon stereotype of psychologists as bearded men who nod while someone lays on the couch and talks about their potty-training. They worry that a psychologist’s job is to look into them and reveal problems. They wonder if their children, the family, or their parenting will be judged or criticized. So, they belittle or minimize the expertise of the field that they view as a threat to the family they want to protect.
Families often feel better once they educate themselves about the current state of psychology. Evaluations and diagnoses are now based on standardized measures. This means that scores are based on a statistical comparison of their symptoms to a large sample from the population. With the use of the DSM-IV-TR, diagnostic criteria have been standardized to help ensure that the language we use to describe mental health is specific. It helps to prevent people from being needlessly diagnosed when symptoms do not cause difficulties in their lives.
Our understanding of mental health conditions has been deepened by years of scientific research about the biological, social and cognitive factors that contribute to learning, attention, or emotional symptoms. In addition, treatments that we currently use have been studied extensively to determine if they harm or benefit people. Psychologists spend years in training to learn these techniques and are required to take ongoing training to ensure their skills are up-to-date. Though managed care has caused many frequently discussed problems, one benefit is the push for treatments that have been proven to be effective through controlled studies. Obviously, insurance companies will not spend their money on therapies that are based on make-believe. Thus, families can rest assured that, even if they are nervous about mental health services, their experiences will be based on real science, significant training, and a careful evaluation of their family rather than ‘make-believe.’
Dr. Madison 1/12
are worried about their children, they feel stressed, and they are often
concerned about the investment of time and finances required to achieve their
goals. They are experiencing ambivalent and contradictory feelings. They want help restoring peace in their families, yet wish they could do it without professional intervention. They want to hear the results of an assessment yet are afraid it may be bad news. Parents may have different points of view about the problem and are unsure about whether the psychologist will ‘agree’ with them or their spouse.
For some people, these feelings are amplified by their concerns about stigma or their misunderstanding of the mental health field. They find it easier to dismiss mental health as voodoo, make-believe or sentimental nonsense than it is to tolerate the possibility that thoughts and emotions can have a significant impact on our functioning. Parents have very sincerely told me that they “don’t believe in psychology.” I suppose that makes me something like the Tooth Fairy. Sometimes I wonder if they ever told their college professors, “I don’t believe in history” or their doctors “I don’t believe in dermatology.” It’s odd for someone who studied the science for years that it can be dismissed as fantasy.
However, ongoing work with these families has shown me that their initial hesitance to acknowledge that psychology is ‘real’ is due to our natural inclination to distance ourselves from the unknown. Many people maintain the cartoon stereotype of psychologists as bearded men who nod while someone lays on the couch and talks about their potty-training. They worry that a psychologist’s job is to look into them and reveal problems. They wonder if their children, the family, or their parenting will be judged or criticized. So, they belittle or minimize the expertise of the field that they view as a threat to the family they want to protect.
Families often feel better once they educate themselves about the current state of psychology. Evaluations and diagnoses are now based on standardized measures. This means that scores are based on a statistical comparison of their symptoms to a large sample from the population. With the use of the DSM-IV-TR, diagnostic criteria have been standardized to help ensure that the language we use to describe mental health is specific. It helps to prevent people from being needlessly diagnosed when symptoms do not cause difficulties in their lives.
Our understanding of mental health conditions has been deepened by years of scientific research about the biological, social and cognitive factors that contribute to learning, attention, or emotional symptoms. In addition, treatments that we currently use have been studied extensively to determine if they harm or benefit people. Psychologists spend years in training to learn these techniques and are required to take ongoing training to ensure their skills are up-to-date. Though managed care has caused many frequently discussed problems, one benefit is the push for treatments that have been proven to be effective through controlled studies. Obviously, insurance companies will not spend their money on therapies that are based on make-believe. Thus, families can rest assured that, even if they are nervous about mental health services, their experiences will be based on real science, significant training, and a careful evaluation of their family rather than ‘make-believe.’
Dr. Madison 1/12
Labels: diagnosis, Psychological testing, standardized testing, Stigma
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